Whether your partner gave you a really nice vibrator as a gift, or you finally decided to pick up one for yourself, it can be tough to figure out how to use a vibrator for the first time. There are so many settings, and if you’re used to masturbating with their hands, you’re probably going to feel awkward at first. And you know what? That’s OK.
Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, says it’s a common reaction. Not everyone knows how to masturbate â€” whether we’re talking with a toy or without.The reality, she says, is that masturbating isn’t always instinctual. Sigue leyendo