13. Change the shape of your spanking hand

12. Find a rhythm.

If you’ve got music playing, using the beat to help you punctuate the experience with precise swats at regular intervals. Change it up after a short time. Getting hit on all the downbeats of “Despacito” isn’t nearly as erotic as you might think.

The way you hold your spanking hand can make a big difference to how a slap feels and even sounds. By cupping your palm and keeping your fingers together you’ll increase the depth of the sound produced without changing the pain level. A flatter palm makes more of a classic slapping noise, and adds to the pain level of a swat. You can tweak the sting further by licking your hand before each swat-or, if you want to infuse a touch a sadism, having your sub lick it for you.

14. Alternate between spanks, squeezes, and rubs.

A mixture of soft and stinging sensations will make for a more dynamic and memorable erotic spanking session. In between sets of spanks, change up patterns, alter your hand shape and power, employ caresses (grab the rear and caress it). Feel the warmth you’ve generated with your hands or your. Cup their undercarriage, give it a squeeze. Always alternate between various sensations to make your game more unpredictable and exciting for the sub.

15. Employ restraint(s).

Restraints aren’t a must for an erotic spanking session, but they are likely to add a little something extra to the dom/sub dynamic while keeping the bottom (and their bottom) securely in place. Sigue leyendo